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February/March 2007 Issue |
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The future of the church and
our nation stands with our students.
But “Generation Now,” teenagers
who number more than 30
million in America, is the primary
audience for so many of the
dreadful things our culture has
to offer. Plugged in and WiFied,
with cell phones in their pockets,
laptops in their backpacks, iPods
pumping in their ears, they’re
bombarded with words and
images that pull them from the
narrow path.
Although the Student Ministry
is doing a great job reaching
teens, Pastor Jack Graham says
it’s time to do more.
“I’m sounding the alarm that
we need to wake up to the war,
to the fight for our kids and to
become more aggressive in
student
opposing the efforts of Satan
and all the host of wickedness
trying to destroy our kids and
their families,” he said.
Pastor Graham has declared
2007 “The Year of the Student”
at Prestonwood.
“I can’t think of anything
more essential right now than
reaching the student generation
and teaching them the
Word of God and preparing
them for life,” he said.
“This is really born of
a burden in my heart because I
continue to see the challenges
that students are facing today,
and I want to make our entire
church more aware, not only
of the challenges and crises
among our student population,
but our region
and beyond.”
This doesn’t mean Pastor Graham wants
the Student Ministry to provide more
programs or events. There are already so
many incredible ones, he said, including
the recent Freedom Weekend. What he
wants is for the entire church body to
become “fully engaged in the battle for
students.”
“I don’t believe we see the urgency as
we should,” he said. “I want to bring all the
parts together and let the whole body
of Christ be mobilized—from Student
Ministry to Prestonwood Christian
Academy, to parents, deacons, Sunday
School teachers and the guy sitting on the
third row from the top in the balcony.”
Freedom Weekend was the launch of
this plan to keep students at the forefront
of ministry at Prestonwood—with
the hope that people will sign up to volunteer,
to mentor, to disciple and to have a
prayerful and abiding interest in students.
Minister to Students Chris Lovell agrees
that reaching and preparing teens has
to be a partnership among parents, the
church family and the ministry. There
are many students at Prestonwood who
have Christ in their lives but who need the
“undergirding” from more mature believers,
he said.
“We need to get away from the thinking
of ‘Oh, the Student Ministry has to do it,’”
he said. “We will come to the congregation
and say, ‘These are ways you can get
involved in changing the next generation.’”
One critical way is for parents to become
more involved spiritually with students.
Last year the Student Ministry staff began
writing and distributing daily devotionals
for junior high and high school students.
Along with those come family devotionals
that encourage parents to sit down with
teens once a week to support and supplement
what they’re learning that week.
Like Pastor Graham, Chris would like to
see congregation members, whether they
are parents or not, become active by leading
a Bible study group, or volunteering at
events.
“Some people will say, ‘Well, I’m old and I don’t have anything
to offer them,’ ” he said. “But, yes, you do. You have a
whole lifetime of experiences to offer them. And kids would
rather have someone who’s 50 and will spend five years
with them than someone who’s 20 and will only spend five
months.”
Adults can also help financially by helping to sponsor students
who can’t afford to go to camp and other events. And,
lastly, everyone can help by committing to encourage and
pray for students, perhaps praying for one year for a particular
student and all the challenges facing that teen.
In his book, The Bridger Generation, Thom Rainer says that
only 4 percent of “Bridgers” or “Millennials” (born in 1984 or
later) are Bible-based believers. Of those Bridgers, about 33
million are teens. Even if they are Bible-based believers as
teens, studies have shown that once students leave home
for college, many of them also leave their faith.
“Today is our moment of greatest opportunity,” writes
Ron Luce, president and founder of Texas-based Teen Mania
Ministries, in his book Battle Cry for a Generation: The Fight to
Save America’s Youth.
“We must capture their hearts while they are young,” he
continues. “We have a short window of 5 to 7 years before
most of them will be into their 20s and set the pace for
American culture.”
This is why Chris believes the key for the student ministry
is simply to help students love God and impact lives.
“If we can help them fall in love with God and form a relationship
with Christ that is lasting and nourishing, out of the
overflow of that love they will naturally impact the lives of
those around them,” he said.
The one habit Chris would like to see instilled in students
is daily quiet time with the Lord. The devotionals require
students to go to the Bible, and they prepare teens for lessons
in upcoming services.
“When they leave our student ministry in
seven years, all the lights and smoke and
fun—all the creative stuff we do—won’t be
there on their college campus,” Chris said.
“But the one thing they will have is their personal
daily time with the Lord. That’s when
we’ll start to see a turn in the statistics about
kids going off to college.”
The students will always love the fun and
the amazing worship provided during services.
“It’s the place to go on Sunday and Wednesday,” said 14-
year-old Caleb Feemster. “If you are feeling down for any
reason, Prestonwood has a way of lifting those blues and
making you feel good about yourself.”
It’s also a place that is cool enough to invite friends. Caleb
has brought friends who have brought friends, and now
there are 13 attending on any given weekend, he said.
Still, many of them say it is the teaching and the relationships
that keep them coming back.
“Everything in the Student Ministry is built on passion for
Jesus,” said Sawyer Buccy, 13. “Every word that is spoken,
every heart that is touched, every hand that is raised, every
sermon that is spoken, is all praise to Jesus.
“They’ve taught so many of us what sacrifice and real faith
is about. They help strengthen us and prepare us for everything
that we will face, and they aren’t afraid to say what
needs to be said.”
Elise Hewitt, 16, said the staff keeps students accountable,
making sure they’re studying their devotionals and checking
on them when they miss service.
“Every time I enter the building, I know that it’s going to
be OK,” Elise said. “I go to a public high school where I don’t
get a lot of Jesus in my day. Just recently, I told my mom that
I realize where I’m the happiest … in God’s house.”
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